In Love With Being In Love,...ADDICTED!!!

sofee is 1000% correct... you are a beautiful woman who needs to open her eyes. The harsh reality is that as long as u put up with it, you are almost as much to blame is he is.... I know that may sound terrible, but you are a young, healthy, human who is capable of removing herself from an obvious dead end relationship.... Do what u already know in your heart you have to do..how many times does this story have to be told (I'm referring to this type of story in general) b4 woman start to realize that men that are abusive in this way, are not changeable... it's a sickness. I personally couldn't even imagine harming a female in that fashion... Someone who would do that is not man to me and has serious mental issues.... get out asap. Good Luck and take care!

Sofee,...Sorry it took me so long to post you back a message. Things between me and this man have been rougher than usual. He beat me up last night, I have a fractured arm he tossed my cell phone out of the car while driving amongst other things. It has mentally crippled me. Get back to me when you can I really would like to talk to you.

Thank you so much for being honest with me. Even the people that are closest to me are never "real" with me about this situation. I needed someone to put it to me straight. As soon as I began to read your message I started crying, your message is what I needed to begin to put my life back together. You have no idea how much I appreciate this, I am now and will be forever in your debt. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

i spent 14 thinking that i could change someone that i loved to love me more, all the while i just loved myself less. I wish that i could give you some wise words of encouragement or some super cool potion , but he will never change and his love will never be equal to yours you will only give and give untill you cannot give anymore. This is a lesson that you are going to have to learn on your own. I wish i could sit down with you or talk to you on the phone so you could hear my voice dear heart. But you are worth so much more than that , there is someone other that can love you for what you are worth. someone who will show you what is means to really be loved.